THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY!
Today, Bisexuality isn’t uncommon anymore. We see love everywhere. Love is a beautiful thing, and it comes in different forms. Every person has their own sexual preference, and being bisexual is an example which is simply being attracted to both men and women.
However, for some people, understanding this concept is beyond their comprehension. So, a group of very calm and understanding individuals who are bisexuals got on Reddit and elucidated things, which range from being hilarious to NSFW, explaining the differences between dating men and dating women.
#1 And that’s how Portarossa became a lesbian.
Women are softer, physically — not just with regards to, you know, boobs and stuff, but also just their skin in general. All that moisturising pays off. All you want to do is touch ’em.
I once dated a guy who naturally had absurdly soft skin, and it was weird but extremely pleasant.
#2 Portarossa knows what’s up.
Men dating bisexual women are a lot more likely to ask for a threesome.
#3 GreatAndPowerfulNixy makes a good point, maybe that’s why most men prefer skipping foreplay.
Hello, I’m a bisexual man.
The biggest difference I’ve noticed is how forward you can be with sex right from the get-go. Dating and sex with a woman is a fucking dance, testing the waters to see how far you’re allowed to go. Dating and sex with a man is usually “do you have a cock? Alright, let’s get that shit in me ASAP homie”.
#4 LynxaBane sums it all up.
As a bisexual female this is what I’ve noticed.
Dating a Lesbian: The lesbian I was dating at the time pretty much wanted me to “forget” I also liked men and wanted me to be 100% into women all the time. It was unrealistic to say the least. I couldn’t comment on actors or men in public yet if I said anything about another female it was all good.
Dating a Bisexual Woman: Pretty standard relationship was fun to talk about people we found attractive etc. Very experimental in the bedroom.
Dating a Straight man: Asked for threesomes alot but when I actually went to plan it, backed out. Not all that experimental in the room. Got SUPER turned on by the idea of me with another woman and SUPER jealous at the thought of another dude.
Dating a Bisexual Man: Pretty close to dating the Bisexual woman, just now the penis isn’t made from silicone and there’s no boobs 🙁
Something I learned overall: Every relationship people think because you play for both teams you are more likely to leave because you have double the options.
#5 riddley16 shares with us an interesting experience.
The girls I’ve dated have actually been significantly quicker to tell me when somethings wrong. The guys I’ve dated bottled it in sometimes for a month before I even knew anything was up.
#6 Aggressivecleaning discusses a matter of importance. Clothes.
The wardrobe that is doubled is a pro with women
#7 All girls can relate to what nomorerunning97 says.
Flirting with girls is so much harder (as a girl at least).
#8 Just a bro thing, what do you think, John-oc?
Bi guy here. After long periods of sex without ejaculation;
Girls – Is it me? Is something wrong? (Two days later) are you sure you’re not fully gay?
Guys – no sweat bro… mind if I finish off and we grab a pizza?
#9 Each have their own taste according to Repulsia.
Women’s kisses are completely different to men’s. Sex with women seems less climax oriented.
#10 throaway967285 tells the truth.
I pretty much round up to being gay now, but I’ve dated several women in my time. Beyond the genital thing, which never mattered much to me anyway, I think the biggest difference I noticed was how much thought women put into interpersonal relationships. At its best, my ex-girlfriends would be able to clearly and articulately express their feelings in a way that I, emotionally stunted man that I am, cannot. At other times I would feel bewildered as they found hidden meanings in things I said or did that I never intended. In my experience, men are more inclined to take what you say and do at face value and not think too deeply about other people’s motivations or thoughts.
#11 drunkersloth42 tells us something that’s more than just about sex.
I am a woman who has dated both men and women. Currently dating a woman. Dated more men in the past (But this probably has more to do with the numbers there will always be more straight men then women who date women).
by far the biggest difference was expectations for gender roles in the relationship. Pretty much all men I dated expected I carry the burden of the emotional work of the relationship and (If living with them) the house work. It is really not attractive when your boyfriend just expects you to be responsible for his laundry and remember birthdays/pick up cards/ make the shopping list/ tell him what chores to “help” with as if I turned into their secretary or mom. And the thing was they weren’t even conscious of it! With the women I have dated it has been far more equal with actual discussions about these things. I mean all couples argue about chores, but it’s nice when the default expectation that im responsible for it isn’t there.
#12 Communication is the key, is it not montelco?
Anecdotally, with the men I’ve dated, things are always surface deep. When “What do you wanna do for dinner?” gets an “I don’t care.” it means just that as opposed to the girls I’ve dated that get pissed when you respond with “Alright, we’ll just do leftovers then.”
Also, disposition. The women I’ve dated will agree to going places or doing things even if they really don’t like it. One girl I dated hated hummus but would try some anyway when I would snack on it. With dudes I’ve dated it’d be a straight up “nah.”