If he gets distant, your first instinct might be for him to try harder in case he’s showing interest. However, not when he has already tried all his best moves, and you still say no. Because nope, he just doesn’t care about what’s going on with you. And assumes you wouldn’t care about him either. A guy has to move on!
Recently, a girl surprised the internet by asking her why her date wasn’t a mind reader on Quora:
She wrote, “A guy asked me out today and I told him “no,” but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn’t he try again?”
If you want to play hard to get, then a guy can’t think that he’s the only person on your radar. Somebody needed to tell this girl that. Luckily, Ron Rule came to the rescue and knocked some sense into this girl.
Scroll down to see how he responded:
And the inquirer “obviously” just had to understand.
Amused by the exchange…
People started sharing their own experiences.